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wrestle with

B1 neutral inseparable transitive

To struggle intensely with a difficult problem, decision, or opponent.

In plain English

To fight hard with something that is very difficult — like a tough question or a heavy box.

What does "wrestle with" mean?

3 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.

1 B1 neutral

To struggle physically with a person or thing, using your body to overpower or control them.

"The security guard had to wrestle with the intruder before police arrived."

He wrestled with the angel until the break of day.

— Genesis 32:24, The Bible (King James Version)
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2 B1 idiomatic neutral

To think long and hard about a difficult problem, decision, or moral question.

"She spent weeks wrestling with the decision to leave her job."

I have wrestled with God and with men, and I have prevailed.

— Genesis 32:28, The Bible (King James Version)
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3 B1 informal

To try hard to manage or control something awkward or unwieldy.

"He was wrestling with a huge suitcase on the narrow staircase."

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Literal vs figurative

Words literally mean

To physically grapple or fight with someone or something using your body.

Actually means

To fight hard with something that is very difficult — like a tough question or a heavy box.

Usage tip

Used both literally (physical wrestling) and figuratively (mental or moral struggle). The figurative use is far more common in everyday speech and writing. Common in journalism and academic writing when describing complex issues.

Words that pair with "wrestle with"

Natural word combinations native speakers use most often.

problem decision conscience question issue dilemma

How to conjugate "wrestle with"

The five tense forms you'll use most often.

Base
wrestle with
I/you/we/they
3rd person
wrestles with
he/she/it
Past simple
wrestled with
yesterday
Past participle
wrestled with
have + pp
-ing form
wrestling with
continuous

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