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talk to oneself

A2 neutral intransitive

To speak aloud when alone, addressing oneself rather than another person.

In plain English

To say things out loud when no one else is listening — like when you're alone and you say your thoughts out loud.

What does "talk to oneself" mean?

2 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.

1 A2 neutral

To say words aloud when alone, directing speech at oneself rather than another person.

"She caught herself talking to herself while trying to solve the maths problem."

To be, or not to be, that is the question.

— William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Act 3 Scene 1 (Hamlet's soliloquy — canonical example of a character talking to himself)
2 B1 idiomatic informal

Used figuratively to describe a situation where one's efforts to communicate are ignored, as if no one is listening.

"I've asked them three times to fix the printer — I feel like I'm talking to myself!"

Usage tip

This is a fixed reflexive expression; the reflexive pronoun must agree with the subject (talk to myself, talk to herself, etc.). Can refer to a harmless habit, an expression of frustration, or — in context — a sign of distraction or eccentricity.

Words that pair with "talk to oneself"

Natural word combinations native speakers use most often.

muttering habit alone quietly aloud thinking

How to conjugate "talk to oneself"

The five tense forms you'll use most often.

Base
talk to oneself
I/you/we/they
3rd person
talks to oneself
he/she/it
Past simple
talked to oneself
yesterday
Past participle
talked to oneself
have + pp
-ing form
talking to oneself
continuous

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