To have a direct and frank confrontation with someone in order to settle a dispute or misunderstanding.
To have a serious talk with someone to settle an argument or problem between you.
2 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.
To have a direct, frank, and sometimes heated discussion with someone in order to resolve a conflict or grievance.
"I've been angry about this for weeks — I'm going to have it out with her today and settle it once and for all."
(less common) To fight or argue openly until a winner or resolution is found.
"The two rivals decided to have it out on the tennis court rather than argue any further."
Always followed by 'with' and a person. Implies a frank, sometimes heated discussion aimed at resolving tension. The tone can be determined or even aggressive, but the purpose is resolution. Common in British and American English.
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