1 B1 idiomatic informal
To regain emotional control and composure after being upset or stressed.
"She took a few deep breaths and got herself together before walking into the interview."
get oneself together
B1 informal transitive
To regain emotional composure or organise one's thoughts, appearance, and life effectively.
In plain English
To calm down, stop being a mess, and get ready to do what you need to do.
What does "get oneself together" mean?
2 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.
2 B1 idiomatic informal
To organise your practical affairs, habits, or lifestyle more effectively.
"After months of chaos, he finally got himself together and started applying for jobs."
Usage tip
Often used as an encouragement or mild rebuke. Can refer to emotional recovery after a difficult event, or more practically to organising oneself before an important task. The reflexive pronoun changes with subject (myself, yourself, herself, etc.).
Words that pair with "get oneself together"
Natural word combinations native speakers use most often.
time need to finally before quickly emotionally
How to conjugate "get oneself together"
The five tense forms you'll use most often.
Base
get oneself together
I/you/we/they
3rd person
gets oneself together
he/she/it
Past simple
got oneself together
yesterday
Past participle
got/gotten oneself together
have + pp
-ing form
getting oneself together
continuous
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