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fend for oneself

B2 neutral intransitive

To take care of yourself without relying on help from others.

In plain English

To take care of yourself and not need anyone else to help you.

What does "fend for oneself" mean?

2 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.

1 B2 idiomatic neutral

To manage one's own life, needs, or survival without help or support from others.

"When her parents moved abroad, she had to fend for herself for the first time."

Children need to learn to fend for themselves.

— Common expression widely cited in parenting literature; no single definitive source.
2 B2 idiomatic neutral

To find food, shelter, or resources by oneself in a survival or wilderness context.

"The hikers were stranded and had to fend for themselves until the rescue team arrived."

Usage tip

Always used reflexively with a matching pronoun: 'fend for myself/yourself/himself/herself/themselves'. The 'oneself' in dictionary citations is a placeholder. Common in contexts of independence, survival, and resilience. Has a slightly tough or self-reliant connotation.

Words that pair with "fend for oneself"

Natural word combinations native speakers use most often.

left ability forced learn manage survive

How to conjugate "fend for oneself"

The five tense forms you'll use most often.

Base
fend for oneself
I/you/we/they
3rd person
fends for oneself
he/she/it
Past simple
fended for oneself
yesterday
Past participle
fended for oneself
have + pp
-ing form
fending for oneself
continuous

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