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ask out

A2 informal separable transitive

To invite someone on a date or to a social outing, typically in a romantic context.

In plain English

To ask someone if they want to go somewhere with you because you like them.

What does "ask out" mean?

2 meanings, ordered from most common to least. Color-coded by CEFR level.

1 A2 idiomatic informal

To invite someone to go on a romantic date.

"He finally worked up the courage to ask her out after months of admiring her from afar."

I asked her out and she said no.

— Common conversational usage, widely attested in popular media
separable
2 B1 informal

To invite someone (not necessarily romantically) to go out somewhere, such as for a meal or drinks.

"The whole team was asked out for celebratory drinks after the project launch."

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Literal vs figurative

Words literally mean

To ask someone to go out (of a place or together to an outside location).

Actually means

To ask someone if they want to go somewhere with you because you like them.

Usage tip

Almost always used in romantic contexts. The object (the person being invited) goes between 'ask' and 'out' or after 'out': 'ask her out' or 'ask out the new colleague'. Common in both American and British English. The phrase 'ask out on a date' is a frequent full form.

Words that pair with "ask out"

Natural word combinations native speakers use most often.

date dinner drinks courage finally nervously

How to conjugate "ask out"

The five tense forms you'll use most often.

Base
ask out
I/you/we/they
3rd person
asks out
he/she/it
Past simple
asked out
yesterday
Past participle
asked out
have + pp
-ing form
asking out
continuous

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