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tear apart

B1 informal separable transitive
In simple words

To rip something into pieces, hurt someone deeply inside, or say really bad things about something.

Literal meaning: To pull or rip an object so forcefully that it comes apart into separate pieces.

Meanings

1 B1 neutral

To rip something into pieces with force.

"The dog tore the cushion apart within minutes of being left alone."

Grammar: separable
2 B1 idiomatic informal

To cause great emotional pain or distress to someone.

"Watching her parents argue every night was tearing the child apart."

"You're tearing me apart, Lisa!"

— Tommy Wiseau, The Room (2003 film)
Grammar: separable
3 B2 idiomatic neutral

To divide or destroy a group, community, or relationship through conflict.

"The bitter dispute over money tore the family apart for years."

Grammar: separable
4 B2 idiomatic informal

To criticise something or someone very severely.

"The reviewers tore his debut novel apart, calling it derivative and dull."

Grammar: separable
Usage notes

Very common in both physical and emotional/figurative senses. The emotional sense ('it's tearing me apart') is especially frequent in everyday speech and media.

Commonly used with

family community argument grief criticism relationship

Forms

Base
tear apart
I/you/we/they
3rd person
tears apart
he/she/it
Past simple
tore apart
yesterday
Past participle
torn apart
have + pp
-ing form
tearing apart
continuous

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Synonyms

rip apart destroy devastate shred demolish savage

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